I've been an accidental SAHM since 2006 and can't believe it's been nearly six years since I've set foot in an office. I have made the most of out being a SAHM by working on my own non profit organization, volunteering for the Miss America Organization as the Miss Brooklyn Executive Director, which kept me extremely busy.
"You are worthy of your own time, energy, and attention so let's see how we can get you to make the most out of this time you have while investing into your children's lives." -
I can't for the life of me remember who said this.
1) Get your house in order
There are countless projects I'm sure you have neglected or were just too tired to do while working 40+ hours/week on top of mommy duties, right? Now is the time to clean your closet, donate unworn/old clothes, and purge your outdated shoes. (Keep the cute ones though no matter how old they are.)
2) Volunteer at your child's school
You can be class mom (like me), help coordinate events, or serve on the PTA board or countless committees. If your child graduated from high school, you can STILL volunteer with his/her school. Did you know that?
4) Volunteer with a local cause or organization
4) Stay in Touch
Schedule a standing lunch appointment with former co-workers weekly or bi-monthly to stay in touch. I tried doing this but once we moved from Brooklyn to Long Island, it became increasingly difficult. Maybe you can. Schedule a Skype lunch. Be creative.
5) Join An Exercise Group
Notice that this is low on my list right now, but it should be higher. Joining a group is a good way to meet others who have the same schedule as you. Strike up a conversation, have lunch (funky and all) after a workout class, and voila! You have a new friend(s).
6) Join a Mommy Group
This was one of the best decisions I have ever made. I have surrounded myself with women just like me. I joined the Queens Chapter of Mocha Moms, Inc. and it has launched and strengthened friendships with women who have similar mommy issues, desires, and needs like myself. We talk about motherhood, being wives, friends, and our semi-professional lives. It's simply amazing to be with these women. It also got me an invitation to the White House. Twice this year. Really, you ask? Really.
7) Help Another SAHM
There are new moms everywhere out there and they need help. Volunteer to babysit for them at least one day a week. Why would I do that, you ask? Don't you remember saying to yourself that you wish you had someone to watch the baby just for a few hours so you could get your hair or nails done? So you could get a massage? So you could regain your sanity? Here's your chance to give back and answer the prayer of another mother.
If you're a SAHM or Dad, what do you do to fill your time each day?
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